Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Old Friends

This has been a great week for old friends here on Layton.

Justus, this small farming community that grew up on Layton in the first half of the twentieth century, fostered solid friendships. When people work, worship, and worry children into adulthood together, friendships form like the bedrock on which this community rests.

In the late 1920's and early 1930's the Evans, Evans, Jones, and Davis families settled into rural life on the mountaintop in Justus. Though in its waning days of production, coal still dominated valley life, and these valley families wanted elbow room. The head of each household had spent plenty of dark, dirty time in the mines, and they sought fresh air and wide open spaces, away from the hustle of life in the busy mining towns of the valley, like Olyphant and Throop. Justus began to explode with these valley kids let loose in the country. Friendships developed on the dirt roads and in the fields and forests.

Jack and Lucy Evans' boys, Jack, Bayard, Dick, Gordon, and Donnie, attended the small one room school house across from their home and romped the countryside with the Von Storch and Lewis boys.

Jack Jones and his wife Winnie brought their son Joe and daughter Betty up the mountain to the great outdoors away from the heyday of the coal mines in Blakely.

Bill Evans, who became the community's first constable, moved his wife and daughter Annette from the congestion of North Scranton. And the Davis family brought Bill, Janet, Margaret and Myfawnwy to their new home on Layton.

The children did what children do best - they played, and as they grew into adolesence, their childhood friends became their dating arena and eventually their choices for love and marriage.

Joe Jones fell in love with the skinny, little beauty, Annette Evans, and Jack Evans fell for the laughter and mirth of Janet Davis. The men shipped out to WWII; Jack to the Pacific theater and Joe to North Africa and Europe. Annette and Janet wrote their love letters from Justus and waited. The end of the war brought the boys home to Layton, their best friends, and marriage.
Annette Evans and Joe Jones (1945)
Jack Evans and Janet Davis, best friends on Layton

The two couples raised their families on Layton, attended church together every Sunday at Mt. Bethel, Justus' community church, celebrated every New Year's Eve in one or the other's living rooms, and took their burgeoning families camping each summer. When the kids were raised and most had flown beyond life on Layton, Joe and Annette and Jack and Janet moved together to retirement heaven - Myrtle Beach.

That brings us to 2013, over eighty years from those early days. Joe is 93, and he returns to spend much of his time here on Layton. He continues to grieve the passing of his Annie in 2009. Janet said a final goodbye to her Jack this year. She lives in an assisted living home near her son in Bethelehem.
Janet and Joe had an "Old Friends" reunion this week. Theirs is an 80-year-old friendship.

This week we visited Janet, and she and dad (Joe) spent the afternoon as they always enjoyed - eating (although in much smaller quantities), talking (although some of the conversation was repeated), and laughing (with the same old sound and enthusiasm). It was a good day for old friends.

This reunion set me to thinking about old friends. So I invited nine of them for a picnic on the porch last Saturday. The rain came down in sheets, ruining my plan for a fire pit evening, but it didn't spoil our laughter. We couldn't go inside because one of my friends is allergic to cats, so we hooted and hollered some more about that as our backs started to get soaked, and the candles flickered in the rising wind, and we huddled up in blankets.
Old friends braved the rainy weather on the back porch and laughed the night away . . . on Layton.

Old friends bring a comfortable camaraderie, a history of relationship, and plenty of good laughter and joy in reminiscing.

As I thanked God this week for our precious "old" friends, I remembered my oldest and dearest Friend, Jesus. He has known me forever. He knows all my quirks and faults and disappointments and fears. He knows my needs and my wants. He's been faithful in walking the journey of life with me, never leaving me alone or lonely.

He and I have a history of relationship and a comfortable camaraderie. He's comforted me in my tears and laughed joyfully with me. He is my treasured and best Old Friend.

No doubt about it. It's always a great week for old friends here on Layton.

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Guest Blogger: Author Hope Flinchbaugh

Welcome to Hope Flinchbaugh, guest blogger. Hope is the author of three novels about China, Daughter of China, Across the China Sky, and I'll Cross the River and a nonfiction book called Out of North Korea. All are available on Amazon. Hope and I became friends at the Montrose Writers Conference two years ago. She invited me to produce a Blog Talk radio show, "The Voice of Hope," which is broadcast weekly in English and Mandarin. Meet my friend Hope . . .


The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert

The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me, Because the Lord has anointed me To bring good news to the afflicted; He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to captives And freedom to prisoners (Isaiah 61:1). 
The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert is a book that was recommended to me by my good friend and partner in Chinese radio ministry, Jo Ann Walczak.  Jo Ann lived in China for more than a year and taught children there.  She is now the producer of our Blog Talk radio show that is in both English and Mandarin, "The Voice of Hope."
As Jo Ann and I prayed about where God would lead us in upcoming shows, He made it more and more clear to us to share on love.  And that’s why she brought up this book by Rosaria Butterfield—she said it was a great read. Rosaria shares how people did not keep telling her about the gospel but loved her over and over again. She even said that if people would have kept telling her how to be saved and pushed her on that, she would have never been born again. Rosaria was a lesbian who taught at a large university. What spoke to Rosaria was the love shown to her by Christians.
I’ve been saved since the womb, I think (not true, but feels that way), so I oftentimes wonder what a person who doesn’t know Jesus thinks about.  How does he or she feel or process what we say when we share the gospel?
Love.  They need to feel love.  Matthew 24:12 says, “Because lawlessness is increased, most people’s love will grow cold.” Times will be difficult. Families will divide, two against three and three against two. Some Christians, even the elect, will fall away, and “men’s hearts will fail them because of fear.”  That does not sound like good news to me. So how do we share good news in the era of COLD HEARTS?  We love them. “They’ll know we are Christians by our love.”
How do we love the lost? I don’t know. I think love has many different approaches and nuances. Love meets needs.  Love gives and serves.  But most of all, the purest expression of love comes from a person who is connected to and in conversation with the God of love.  Am I connected to God today? Are we talking right now, checking in with one another? Do I look heavenward and ask God, “What’s next?  How can I help you?  What can I do for you right now?”
God is love. That’s it.
And as far as our Blog Talk radio show, "The Voice of Hope"?  Well, we’ve laid quite a foundation of scripture since our launch date 11/11/11!  We’ve read over the internet radio the books of John, Acts, and Ephesians from the Bible, and now we’re recording Romans, too, in both English and Mandarin.  We’ve done a number of music shows and broadcast a commentary on Ephesians. It’s exciting to work for the king!  But love . . . Jesus loves the Chinese people. Jesus loves ALL the people of the world.
Love is a force.  Love is something you do on purpose.  Love shakes off offenses and forgives. Love clings to truth or it is not God’s love.  Love . . . Father in heaven, help us all to love you and to love the person in front of us today.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Free Downloads!Asian Girl Praying

Listen to the Gospel of John read in English and Mandarin on Voice of Hope Blog Talk Radio.  Listen to the Book of Acts, Romans, and Ephesians read in English and Mandarin from   Voice of Hope Blog Talk Radio.
Listen to the Voice of Hope Music shows from   Voice of Hope Blog Talk Radio.   

About Lift the Cross of Jesus!

My day job is writing--I'm an author and publisher of a number of books. More on that later. But there is nothing of greater importance to me than the early morning hours I spend with the Creator of the Universe. Although He knows everything there is to know, His greatest delight isn't to give us knowledge, but to give us love. My highest joy is to watch the sun rise with notebook in hand and write the words he speaks to my heart. I want to share some of those words with you here . . . words on the cross.